Love vs Heartbreaks

Love vs Heartbreaks. In my opinion, we all have to go through love and heartbreak in order to grow as a person; in order to figure out what we want and what we don’t want. Obviously, you first need love in order to experience heartbreak. Or… you need to experience lust. I guess maybe I should have called this Love vs Lust vs Heartbreaks. But, for now we’ll just say lust and love are the same thing! Even though they’re not. Alright fine lets talk about lust as well (get used to it, my mind loves to wander away while I’m deep in thoughts! lol) Lust and love are 2 of the most exciting and wonderful life experiences one will ever go through. If you’ve ever felt it, you know what I’m talking about.

Imagine the first “date” you had with that someone you liked. Imagine the stuff you said, how you felt, the way you looked into each others eyes. Maybe you were nervous. Maybe you were excited. Maybe you were scared cause you knew that you liked that person and you didn’t want to get hurt. Do you remember that first kiss? Maybe it was unexpected. Maybe you had it all planned. But, either way, if you felt anything for that person, the first kiss was most likely a very memorable kiss. Its like all of a sudden you’re in a hypnotic stage. No one else around you. Just you and that person. Feeling weak in the knees, feeling like you just experienced the most amazing thing in your life. Such a rush.

And then comes the next exciting stage. You start dating! So many emotions go through you when you start to know that person! The more you know about him/her the more you want to know even more. You want to spend every possible minute with him/her! You just cant… get… enough… Before you know it, you’re lying in bed, kissing passionately and intensely and you have sex for the first time. Sure, for some of us, it happens quicker than others, but nonetheless, It was probably the best you’ve felt in a long time? It probably made you feel special? Wanted? You probably felt an even deeper connection? Maybe it was at that exact moment that you were in love?! Whatever you felt, if you had any sort of connection with that person, I’m sure it was AMAZING.

And then, you fall in love! You feel like you’re going to spend the rest of your life with that person. Maybe you feel like you’re going to marry him/her. You have it all planned out. You’re going to get married in a little ceremony with just a few guests, and have your honeymoon.